How to Deal with Bad Luck

	If you allow your mind to dwell on a bad situation, you prolong it. In sports, if you make a mistake and then dwell on it with your inner dialogue, you will repeat it. This dialogue stops you and you don’t move on. To drop it, be receptive to what you want. For instance, instead of saying, “I don’t have money,” ask yourself, “What is my million dollar idea?” – Shar McBee P.S. Do you know that To Lead is to Serve is available as an audio book? Click here. Visit the Website: http://www.joyofleadership.com/ You can watch Shar McBee speak. Click here: www.JoyofLeadership.com/video Contact her: Shar@JoyofLeadership.com Subscribe				Help new people step up to leadership Increase Volunteers

When People Don't Take Your Advice

	When you feel oppressed or restrained; when people don’t believe you, or listen to your advice, how do you respond? If you become gloomy, you’ll prolong the situation. If you let your spirit be broken, you won’t succeed. But if you can remain in good spirits, your upbeat cheerfulness will bring you success in the long run. This is not easy, which is why only successful people can do it. – Shar McBee P.S. Do you know that To Lead is to Serve is available as an audio book? Click here. Visit the Website: http://www.joyofleadership.com/ You can watch Shar McBee speak. Click here: www.JoyofLeadership.com/video Contact her: Shar@JoyofLeadership.com Subscribe				Help new people step up to leadership Increase Volunteers

How to make the good times last - Two Tips

	Tomorrow I am speaking at the national conference for all the Ronald McDonald Houses. The topic is “Increase your volunteers 500%.” One way to do that can be learned from the Olympians. If you assume that bad times will last, you become hopeless. If you assume that good times will last, you become careless. Like the Olympians, to do your best work (the kind that is remembered and the results last) you must ONE – Stop worrying about the future. TWO – Stop berating yourself for the past. If you can “be here now” you will be able to do your best in the moment. – Shar McBee P.S. Do you know that To Lead is to Serve is available as an audio book? Click here. Visit the Website: http://www.joyofleadership.com/ You can watch Shar McBee speak. Click here: www.JoyofLeadership.com/video Contact her: Shar@JoyofLeadership.com Subscribe				Help new people step up to leadership Increase Volunteers

How to Win Confidence

	If you want people to have confidence in you, learn the 3 Don’ts. Don’t do things you might regret. Don’t let fear force you to make selfish decisions. Don’t become presumptuous after you succeed. – Shar McBee P.S. Do you know that To Lead is to Serve is available as an audio book? Click here. Visit the Website: http://www.joyofleadership.com/ You can watch Shar McBee speak. Click here: www.JoyofLeadership.com/video Contact her: Shar@JoyofLeadership.com Subscribe				Help new people step up to leadership Increase Volunteers